During this time of year, a time of reflection, I can comfortably say this year has been an incredibly awesome year. Time has been good to us. We have grown together as a family, had points that strengthened our core, challenged our sanity, laughed an amazing amount, cried some too, but all together. We even added a new little one.

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This year was good. Life is good.

But I Haven’t Been So Good To It.

We have been here before. We have come full circle. I am sitting here reflecting on the post I wrote just a year ago promising all these changes, some of which happened. And I think starting off the year strong is a given, but as time went on, all those things faded into the abyss. I exercised. I probably annoyed everyone with constant pictures of myself doing the Insanity workout. But dammit, I did it! And, honestly, it was great, and I don’t think I ever felt as good as I did at that point. Then I got lazy. But then I tried again. This time T25. Then I quit. Then I sat on the couch and became a potato and couldn’t even bring myself to try.

And while sitting on the couch, I couldn’t bring myself to read one of those books a month that I promised myself I would. I tried. I always had one next to my bed, but it never happened for a million little reasons. All that structure I told myself would happen faded with time. I used to learn the Daf Yomi every day, but then I started some new projects with work and convinced myself that I was “too busy” and didn’t have time.

Those are all excuses. And bad ones I might add.

I once heard that some of the most successful leaders take “alone” time. Time to just sit and think and decompress. I had an epiphany when I was in Brighton a couple weeks ago and had some serious alone time. Since May, hell, since we made Aliyah, I hadn’t taken any REAL time to myself. I felt blocked and on auto pilot.

This summer didn’t help. We had a war. My family almost didn’t make it back to Israel (I am being dramatic, but sort of). I started a new job (jobs). Every distraction you can think about, we had.

But I know the problems at least. The problem is misusing the time I had.

Time Is A Precious Jewel

I once heard a great story. I can’t recall the source, but it’s been about 10 years since I heard it and it still impacts me every year around this time.

The story is of a simple jeweler living in the outskirts of the kings land. He was however the most skilled craftsman in the land. He could take the most ordinary jewels, rubies and gold and shape them into the most beautiful works of art anyone has seen.

It wasn’t before long that the king heard about this  jeweler and decided that he was going to see how good this jeweler really was. The king personally went with his servants to the house of this jeweler. When the jeweler opened the door and saw the king standing before him he was shocked! “Your highness” he said, “I never dreamed that you would be standing at my door. What can I do for you?”

The king said to him, “I hear you can turn the most average jewels into the most beautiful works of art. I have a proposition for you. I will give you a chest filled will all the diamonds,  rubies, gold and silver and all other priceless unique jewels that you can use and you have to make me the most uniquely amazing piece of work that I have ever seen. If you can do that, then you can keep all the extra jewels. And if not, then you have to return to me every jewel that is in that chest. Will you make this piece for me?”

The jeweler is excited and accepts the offer.

The king said to him “you have a year’s time to create this masterpiece”.

The jeweler sat down and began drawing up the designs for the king. But after a while he started to get frustrated and couldn’t think, so he decides to take a little break and focus on more important things for now. After all, he has a year and he has no doubt that he will please the king. He is so confident in fact, that he decides that it couldn’t hurt to start  spending some of the profit that he will make.  

Six months later the king decides to check up on the jeweler. He sent one of his messengers to the jewelers house. And the jeweler has clearly not thought about his job for a while. When he sees the messenger, he gets caught off guard.  The messenger reminds him that he has six more months to create this masterpiece for the king.  The messenger leaves and the jeweler gets nervous. He let so much time go to waste. So he sits down and starts to draw up some designs. But after a while, the same thing happens. He slowly begins to forget about his project.

With a month left the king decides to pay the jeweler a visit himself. He knocks on the door of the jeweler and when the jeweler answers the door, he sees the king and falls to the floor in fear.  The king tells the jeweler that he stopped by to see how the progress on his jewel was coming?  The man, scared that lying to the king could cost him his life, says, “your highness I really haven’t given much though to it at all”.

So the king says to him, “you know our deal. You have one month left and after that if you haven’t made the finest jewel for me then every last piece of the riches goes back to me”.

The jeweler is horrified. He takes a look into the treasure chest and he sees how many of the jewels he has spent. There are hardly any left. He sits down to work and he gives it his best.

When the king finally arrives the jeweler is anxiously waiting. The king says to the jeweler, “do you have my jewel?”

“I do” says the jeweler, and hands the king a box.  Inside the box is the most exquisite necklace that  anyone has ever seen.  The king studied it hard and then said to the jeweler, “this truly is the most beautiful piece of jewelry I have ever seen”.

“But think”  says the king, “think how much more beautiful it could have been if only you put in this effort from the beginning. There were so many jewels that could have gone into this that you never even saw. There was so much potential for this piece that was lost from the beginning. If only you worked as hard from the beginning as you did during that last month this may have been that much greater.”

And with that the king left.

I think the moral is very clear. Every second is a precious jewel. All the incredible things we could have done during the year if only we used our time in the right way. It’s upsetting to think about sometimes how much time is wasted. How much time I have wasted! The million times I could have pushed myself a little harder but said “I just need to rest for a minute” and there goes the night. The ideas I had that were ready to be created, but then… the internet.

There will always be distractions, but what have I been doing with the time I have? What have I been doing to block out those distractions?

This “Time” Will Be Different

I suppose all I can do is try. A few things that I have started doing recently (or want to do) to use my time better:

  • My commute is a giant waste of time. I drive twice a week to Tel Aviv which takes me 4 hours total minimum. But its a complete waste. So thanks to my friend Shlomo, I have stated taking the train which allows me “quiet” time to read and think.
  • Meditation. I think sometimes I am afraid to not actively do things. But I think its important. So I am going to try for 30 minutes a day to just have quiet time. Time to reflect, think, and re-calibrate.
  • Exercise and Health. I really started stinking at that. I don’t even walk anymore. My car is my default. This needs to change. Thankfully I am healthy, but I have a family that I am terrified something could happen to me and… I will stop. I started riding my bike to work. I started walking. I need to eat healthier.
  • Technology All The Time… this is a problem for me. I am frankly an addict. I need to learn to put down my phone and pay attention to whats around me. I know its a problem. I need to work on it.

Like I said, we have been here before. I have been here. Life is a cycle and it will keep going around and around. And we are back to where we started. But we are different every time. I feel different. And I know the same resolutions and changes I hope to make, the grandiose goals I have set for myself, will start off great and then life will kick in and the ups and downs will happen. I am confident there will be successes, but I also know that I will get back to this point next year and wonder, where did the time go!

If I can say I have learned anything from this year, its that the effort and pushing forward is more important than anything else. Time is precious and it needs to be treated that way. I need to take advantage of every second that I have.  Life is too short not to.  

To a year of using our time the best we can and making the most of it. A Shana Tova to everyone. 

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I know people are creeped out by Google sometimes, but I have a story to that will make your skin crawl. Aside from being disgusted by what I am about to write, chances are, it might start to wake some people up on how nothing on the web is anonymous.

YouTube Videos Auto Post Themselves

The other day, I posted a video to YouTube and before I knew it, I had people +1′ing it on Google+. I was intrigued because I know I didn’t actively post it there. Turns out, I have a setting on somewhere, that I can’t for the life of me find, that allows YouTube that automatically posts my videos to Google+. Youtube Auto Post To Google_plus I have written about understanding your permissions before, so this is nothing new. In this instance, I tried to undo these settings following Google’s own directions, but I can’t seem to figure out how to remove this setting which leads me to believe it’s much deeper ingrained in Google+ than a simple permission setting. In fact, it seems that the point is for the two to play off each other based on the feature list I found. Why am I telling you this? It’s all part of the inter-connectedness of the web, right? Yes. But in this instance, it has just cost someone their job.

Someone Lost Their Job Because of Nasty YouTube Comments

Well, he didn’t lose his job, but he certainly didn’t get it. A friend of mine, had a job opening available and received many submitted applications for said job. One particular applicant for said job seemed like a completely normal guy on the surface. That is until you click on his Google+ profile which he has connected to his Gmail account. You have to understand, the majority of this company is Jewish-Israeli. In the case of this applicant, he is Arab-Israeli, which to be clear has nothing to do with the decision not to hire him. In fact, my friend has no problem hiring Arabs and does hire. I am even friends with one of them and hes a great guy! The decision to not even entertain this candidate came down to a simple bit of information, found publicly, because he “chose” to connect his YouTube and Google+ accounts, which exposed his hateful and horrible speech towards Jews. If nothing more, it demonstrated that he may not have been the best cultural fit in the majority Jewish company.

In order that this doesn’t get taken any further, I have completely anonymized his information but have a look for yourself:

I don't think he likes Joan Rivers

I don’t think he likes Joan Rivers

And it wasn’t just one post that was hard to find. It seems as though he spends all his time commenting on YouTube videos and bashing Israelis.

Actually, I don't think he likes anyone who is Jewish

Actually, I don’t think he likes anyone who is Jewish

I want to be extremely clear about something; this is not about who is right or wrong politically, or who did what or what Zionists do or don’t do. This is about hateful language that wouldn’t be tolerated in any work force. This individual was not hired because he is an anti-Semite, and for no other reason. Well, I guess you could say that it was also because he was too stupid to cover his tracks and hide his hate.

So, I guess the lesson here is to be more careful what you post, and where else it gets posted. Because if you aren’t careful, you might get exposed for the anti-Semitic scum you are.

A Closing Thought To Ponder

It’s actually kind of a scary thought to think what would have happened if he was smarter and found a way to hide this information.

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On Monday September 1st 2014, my wife and I welcomed our daughter to the world. And we are obviously overjoyed and couldn’t be happier.

But with new babies come new responsibility. I mean, like, all sorts of paper work and stuff. And it’s important to “get them in the system” soon… (s#*t, which reminds me, I need to go buy her domain name before we actually name her so a squatter doesn’t steal it… but I digress). Basically, there is all this boring long logistical paper work that has to happen.

So I received an email from my wife saying “can you fax these”?

fax_these_email

 

And then I had this conversation with myself

Me: You bet I can!

Other Me: But in today’s day and age, who the hell uses fax machines!!??

Me: Government offices that’s who.

Other Me: But who has a fax machine that you can fax with?

Me: No one really. The fax machine should really just go away, but sadly, the board of fax machine regulatory committee must must have a 20 decade contract with every government office on the planet.

Other Me: So what are you going to do without a fax machine?

So here we are.

Here is How I Send Faxes… For Free… Without a Fax Machine

WHAT KIND OF SORCERY IS THIS!!!!

Relax, it’s not that exciting, its just a nice little hack that I put on Facebook once, so the 3 or 4 times a year (maximum) you need to send a fax, you will know what to do.

Step 1: First of all, you need to have a Google Drive account. Those are free. Awesome!

Step 2: Sync up HelloFax with Google Drive. (h/t to my buddy Yakir for showing me that this works internationally a long time ago). Basically,Google Drive allows all sorts of apps and HelloFax is one of them.

Googl_Drive_Hello_fax

Step 3: Drag the attachments into HelloFax or select the file you want, type in the fax number, and send it.

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Step 4: Receive email acknowledgment that it is sent.

Bonus Step for Physical Paper Documents:

A while ago, Ariella had a few papers she needed faxed to Ministry of Health for her nursing license so I used an app called CamScanner (h/t to my buddy Yudi) and turned them all into a single PDF and uploaded that file to Google Drive.

Once in Google Drive, go back to Step 3.

Doesn’t get easier than that!

Anyway, I hope this helps you in the event you have to send a fax. Feel free to try for yourself and lets all just hope and pray that the fax machine goes the way of the dodo and we never have to worry about that again.

Until that time, goodluck!

https://www.hellofax.com/?ref=25f30b11&s=F (disclaimer: this is an affiliate link, so I get an extra free fax if you use it… which basically means, I get nothing :) )

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The past few weeks have been extremely difficult. First it started with 3 innocent teenagers being kidnapped by Hamas terrorists and then brutally murdered. The situation has since escalated into a full on war.

Traveling around Israel for work has its perks, yes. I still get to see the beauty of the land every time I drive through Beit Shemesh to go to Tel Aviv. It’s stunning. I get awesome food, and I meet really interesting people.

But lately, it has been rather distracting too. I now continue my meetings while running into bomb shelters, evacuating buses on the side of the highway because of impending rocket fire, attending the funerals of lone soldiers along with 30,000 of my brothers and sisters, and visit their parents in their house of mourning. And I cry. A lot more than I should. This appears to be what life has become.

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I have said countless times already when people ask me, there is nowhere in the world I would rather be right now. This is my home. I am proud to have the privilege to call it my home. I am proud of the morality of the army protecting me. I am proud to be here.

And here is the crazy thing, in some weird and sick way, the few rocket attacks that I have personally experienced have made me feel more connected to Israel than I ever though possible. So while it may be crazy, I find a sick sense of comfort in the few we have experienced in the central parts of Israel, because it connects me to the rest of the country. It’s still completely screwed up, I know.

But, You Feel Me, Right?

Maybe you don’t.

And I couldn’t shake the feeling that lots of people don’t get it.  It’s not their fault, I tell myself over and over, that they don’t understand what this rocket fire means. Hell, I didn’t even really get it until I experienced my first air raid siren and had to run for shelter.  It is hard to comprehend this, but since 2001, there has not been a month without rockets into Israel. That’s effing insane! True, this mainly affects the south, but Israel is a family. If you hurt your small toe, the rest of your body feels the pain. Sadly, I don’t think we were feeling this pain until rockets started falling more central. But Israelis do now.

I feared that others around the world didn’t.

I wanted needed to find a way to help and open up the worlds eyes. I needed to find a way to show what this daily and constant barrage feels like.

A Idea Exploded Into My Head!

Sorry about that header… the dark humor is helping us all cope :)

Anyway, you know those “days since last incident signs”?? Well, how about a simple counter which counted up from the last rocket launch? Whenever a rocket was fired into Israel, it would go back to zero and start over.  So I bought the domain IsraelHasBeenRocketFreeFor.com

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The Stated Goal

The stated goal was to just get views. It was a one off website to raise awareness. That. Was. It.  No money. Nothing. Just attention.

I reached out to my friend Uriel at MadeInJLM and asked him to connect me to a developer who might want to run with an idea I had. He put me touch with Yehonatan Tsirolnik, a recent graduate from High School who is brilliant and was up to the task. Incidentally, we also met in person the next night, but I digress.

Quick Execution and Scrappy Launch

We got the entire thing up and running in 48 hours and launched it around 10:30AM Friday, July 18th, 2014. Yehonatan and I both posted it on Facebook and twitter and I sent it out a few private messages to friends to give them a heads up. Then I went to meet my aunt for sushi.

This “thing” was LITERALLY racking up thousands of views!

Real time analytics were fascinating to watch. At any given time, there were between 200 and 500 people on the site, watching the timer count and reset.

israelrockerfree_realtime_analytics

Curious What Kind of Impact It Made?

At 2 days in:

  • We had a little over 34,000 unique visitors.
  • These mainly came from Facebook (4.9K shares) and some from twitter (237 RT’s)
  • The next day, that number more than doubled with over 78,000 unique visitors.
  • We got written up on The Times of Israel and then other publications followed.

By today July 25th 2014 at 4PM Israel time (when I am writing this):

  • we have over 196,000 unique visitors
  • 43,000 Facebook shares
  • 1575 RT’s (which feels small considering the flow I see on tweetdeck, but who am I to argue)
  • 136 +1′s. (We originally did not add Google+ shares because I had heard of significant anti semitic trolling there, so I wanted to steer clear. But later changed our mind)

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On a lighter note, one of my favorite tweets about it came from this guy:

It made me laugh… but it’s also the reality.

I had friends messaging me on Facebook that we had close to a 10 hour stretch. Which ended shortly after that.

Mission Accomplished?

I think so. But I think we can still do more.

And I could go on, about some of the things I learned while doing this about marketing and creating a viral piece of content, but I want to save that for another time. The focus of this is the situation and awareness. Honestly, its been a rough past few weeks and I don’t really have the energy to write about this more. The only thing I hope happens with making this site is that it changes the perception of people around the world on Israel, even just a little bit.

Why I Am Telling You This

Aside from the fact that those stats are friggin awesome and it’s fun to share successes, I am mainly telling you this because I believe this perspective needs to be shared. Think to yourself, could you or anyone else live like this? Should Anyone live like this?

Please continue to share by buffering it, FB sharing it Tweeting it ———-> Tweet this

Thank you to everyone for your support, feedback, and interest. To family and friends who have reached out expressing concern, you know who you are and I can’t even begin to tell you how much it means.

Keep following on Facebook and Twitter for updates. Chances are I won’t be posting them here, so that is the place to go.

As a quick disclaimer, while I appreciate comments, I will NOT tolerate any political debates or anti semitic remarks on my personal blog. So fair notice, if they are left, I will be deleting them.

 

 

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I Have Personally Gotten Hacked… Twice

You can’t be too safe online today. In the days of cyber attacks, heart bleed and other random threats you might find online, you need to secure yourself. And with so many random profiles and accounts, this can be really hard. Almost impossible.

In fact, I have personally gotten hacked twice.

First Hack: Classic Email Hack At My Grandfathers Funeral & Daughters Birth

The first time was a few years ago and it was the classic email hack. The date is September 2011 and it was on an on an old Yahoo account I don’t use anymore. It was the weekend after my grandfathers funeral. I woke up that morning with plans to go to the hospital to pick up my wife who had just given birth to our daughter, and the first thing I saw on my phone was a message from a friend saying, “dude, your email was hacked”.

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f#ck.

As if I didn’t have enough going on! Once I realized it was just my yahoo and not my Gmail, I relaxed. There is nothing in there remotely important. But it did scare me into setting up 2 step verification.

Second Hack: Possible Twitter Infiltration… Just a Normal Day

The other time this happened was a couple months ago. My friend sent me a note and said, “did you mean to post that on twitter”. Sure enough, I looked and there it was. A non condoned tweet. And no I did not mean to send it.

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I started panicking and investigating. Crap, I hope my twitter account wasn’t hacked.

I was still able to access the account and nothing else on twitter was compromised. That was a relief.

On the unauthorized tweet, I clicked on the pinterest link which took me to my pinterest profile. Turns out, my Pinterest was hacked by Iranian Coders in Paris.

pinterest haacked by iranians

They created a random pinboard and added a link to one of their sites. Odd. I am not entirely sure how valuable hacking a relatively dormant and inactive Pinterest account was. Whatever. To be investigated later. But, hooray! I found the perpetrator.

By the way, BIG props to Pinterest for putting my account in safe mode due to suspicious activity. I wonder why this doesn’t happen with other accounts online (or perhaps it does and I have luckily not had to experience it). But I digress.

pinterest_hacked

It still doesn’t explain the rogue tweet. 

How Did the Pinterest Post End Up On My Twitter?

Simple, I allowed it. Years ago. When Pinterest first came on the scene, I must have given Pinterest permission to post whatever it wanted on my twitter account. In fact, it isn’t the only thing I discovered when investigating. Apparently, over the years, I had give access to over 70 different apps on Twitter. Many of which I had never even heard of and probably no longer existed. Facebook is the same and even more scary.

By the way, you probably have too. See for yourself:

On twitter go to: Settings -> Apps and view the apps you have given permission to.

On Facebook go to: Settings -> Apps -> Apps you use.

For me, until recently, Buzzfeed, Instagram, and Slideshare were all sharing my activity every time I did something on their network (just to name a few). And most of the time, I had no knowledge of it. Imagine looking at some stupid top 37 list on Buzzfeed, taking an action and all that showing on Facebook. How embarrassing is that??? (It was for research I swear!) (by the way, I wrote about this EXACT fear almost 3 years here)

Heck, I even gave vizify access to my twitter to create the “end of the year video” for my year end conclusion post, and they took the liberty to change the link in my profile. Needless to say, their permissions were quickly revoked.

vizify hacks my twitter

Not Cool Vizify!

Protect Yourself And Your Networks

I don’t think you are at serious risk by giving these permissions. The worst that can happen (that I am aware of) is one of these apps post something on your behalf or access the information in your profile. They can’t steal your identify. But it’s still unsettling.

And what about hacking? You don’t want to get hacked.

Here are a number of things you can do to protect yourself online.

  • Check your permissions every once in a while. Not that anything terrible will happen if you don’t but why leave it to chance. You should know which apps have access to your accounts.
  • Start using 2 step verification. I use it for both my email and twitter. I agree, it can be annoying sometimes, but with Google Authenticator and the twitter verification texts, its really simple. And trust me, its way less annoying than actually getting hacked.
  • On top of two step verification, make sure your email password is unique and the most secure. If anyone ever tries to hack your account, guess where password resets go to. You guessed it. Email. Make sure no one can crack that one.
  • Create complicated passwords. If you are afraid you will forget it, then start using lastpass. Its awesome.

I would be really interested to hear about some of the horror stories other people have had where these permissions got them “caught” doing something online. Share below (or email me).

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I Am About To Get My First Cake Ever

Anyone who knows me knows that I have some dietary restrictions. This is a whole other topic which I am saving for my TED talk (yep, that’s a goal of mine), but given these restrictions, on my birthday, I have never recieved a cake at work. I mean, one time I did. They swore that it was Kosher but it wasn’t. It’s the thought that counts though, right? :)

Back to the cake.

This year, after moving to Israel, for the first time in my professional career, I was about to get a cake at work. I knew this because everyone gets a a cake.

There I am, in a meeting. Strategizing. Planning. And I forgot all about the cake. And then, right on que, the entire team barges in the the conference room to give me my cake. At last! A cake.

But, they also has another surprise for me loaded on the laptop. The domain aaronfriedman.com had been populated with less than flattering bits of information about me.

Have a look:

Took the screen shot from my phone

Took the screen shot from my phone

At first, I was really excited. “How on earth did you convince that guy to sell you the domain. This is the best birthday present EVER!”

But then the sad reality hit me that they didn’t actually buy it. All they did was convince the owner to change the information which had more or less been static for years. Trust me. I know. I monitor it.

A Taste of My Own Medicine  Almost Screwed Me

This all started in the first place because my personal belief is that everyone should control their online reputation. Not such a crazy idea, right? Well, when it was discovered that individuals on the team chose to not own the domain of their name, they were slowly acquired, one by one,  to teach lessons to the team. For starters, Ari Roth now has a website. (*Full disclosure, I do not own any of our colleagues websites, but I do wholeheartedly support the cause. I imagine one day, he will take it over, build the site real strong, and then this link will be awesome for him). I don’t get it. How can it be you work in internet marketing and don’t even care about this!?!? I for one have spent years working on branding myself a certain way online. Since I couldn’t own the domain of my name, I decided to brand something else. That was were Digital Highrise came from.

But it worked. And I rank for my name. It took time and hard work, but see the SERP for yourself:

Take That Dr. Aaron D. Friedman on a .edu site!

Take That Dr. Aaron D. Friedman on a .edu site!

Screwing With Other People’s Brand Online is NOT Cool

Don’t get me wrong. I am one for a good prank.  The problem with my colleagues prank was simply a control issue. I am not saying an old exact match domain, is going to win for those searches, at least it won’t in Google. Bing is another story and honestly, I am embarrassed for their algorithm based on those results. But having information on the internet, even as a joke, who knows what that can do or show up for. No less on a domain you don’t control.

For cryin out loud, this domain was just sitting there completely dormant, and still it. This other Aaron Friedman domain squatter could have held the information on there and bribed me. “If you want it, buy the domain from me. FOR TEN MILLION DOLLARS!” He could have tormented me for the rest of my digital life!

Getting It Taken Down Could Be a Disaster

I did everything I could. And I am not going to go into the big details, but needless to say, the fate of getting this taken down was in the hands of my team alone. There was no valid whois record for this guy, no email address listed. It was bad. The only contact information I ended up finding was by using the waybackmachine and he didn’t respond.

All’s Well That Ends Well

Turns out, this guy has a soul, and decided to change it back. He did reject my offer to buy the domain but that is a separate topic.

I hope we all learned a little lesson from this escapade. Don’t screw with someone’s brand online, unless you have 100% control. It’s just plain not nice and you might not get as lucky as I did.

Aaronfriedman pranked for birthday

This pretty much sums up the moment of discovery

TL;DR

Don’t F#*k with other people’s brand online… It’s not nice. (tweet that line —-> Tweet)

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A lot of people approach me in person and comment on the sharing I do on-line. And truth be told, I share a lot. Ever since we made Aliyah, my social media posting has hit all time highs.

Why? Simple. Keeping in touch is important and I want to share our life with our family and friends. What easier way than to mass post on social media!

You Spend All Day Online Don’t you?

But I do get lots of odd questions from people.” Do you spend all day on the computer?” “Don’t you have better things to do?” “Doesn’t it take a ton of time?” “Who the hell cares about what you post?” “Really, who the hell cares?”

The answers to these questions are:

  1. Yes & No
  2. Yes (which is why the last one was a hybrid)
  3. No
  4. People
  5. Lots of people.I will explain

Turns Out, People Do Care

How do I know people care? Because in a strange twist of events, many people talk to me about social media offline. I never expected that, but I don’t care. What stinks though is the perception people have of my online behavior. The truth is, I do spend all my time on the computer, but not on social media. While my job is on the computer, 90% of all social media I am involved in comes from my trusty phone. And more specifically, it happens when I have “free time” or need a break. From a time perspective, I make it take as little time as possible, while getting the most “reach” possible.

It actually takes me very little time.

How I Share Online

Lets break it down. I really only share a handful of things online, which is pretty limited to Facebook and Twitter (I dabble in Google+ but still haven’t jumped in head first yet aside from work):

  • Images of my family, interesting observations, and funny things
  • Articles mainly related to technology, SEO or Social Media.
  • Random tweets: Much less often than anything else but I share them.

How Do You Share Images?

My go to for sharing images is Instagram. Not because I love Instagram, but more because it allows me to share on Twitter and Facebook at the same time. The wrench in this was when Instagram started fighting with Twitter and images stopped showing up. For a while there I just dealt with it, but I almost left Instagram because of it. Then, I discovered this IFTTT formula which takes every image I post to Instagram and converts it into a Twitter Pic, which means the image shows up on Twitter natively. People actually get to see it again.

If Instagram Then Twitter

h/t http://www.businessinsider.com/instagram-twitter-ifttt-2013-12

What About Article and Video Sharing?

The little secret here is that while it might seem like I post all the time, the reality is, most of the articles are scheduled. Buffer is my go to app for tweeting. I love the idea that I can read an article and share it at a later time. it spreads out engagement over the course of a day. Not only that, if you sync it with Followerwonk, it creates a schedule for you based on when your following actually is active on twitter. With the very simple click of the share button, I can easily send it directly to buffer to go out later.

And Then There Is Blogging

So this is the obvious biggest challenge because to do it well takes the most time. I put up my first blog post on a blogger account Tuesday February 10th 2009, and it is embarrassing (good luck finding it). I can see how my writing has evolved. How I took on my own voice. And I have gone through waves to figure out what “works best” for me. First it was just random no direction blogging. Then it turned into a news outlet (for about 2 weeks). Then I started writing about work which is where things started getting the most serious. Only later did I realize that I liked writing about life more than anything else. Well, life and my social media life. The point is, blogging is where I have seen my work life and personal life intertwine more than anywhere else. Which is why, usually, it will have the most personal twist to it.

And after I write, I share. And this is practically the only one I do manually.

How About Browsing, Reading, and Just Being Social

My go to app for finding information is Feedly. It is on my phone so whenever I am in a tremp, or waiting room, or whatever, While it is the best replacement for google reader that I have found to date. It’s not perfect. For instance, it doesn’t send me to the actual article. I can only browse from within the app… which is more annoying than you would imagine. Especially when you want to share that article.

Pocket is awesome, but I basically save articles I want to read and rarely get to them… which stinks.

Here is the crazy little secret. I don’t use any special apps on my phone to browse through my social networks.

  • For Facebook I use the organic app
  • For Twitter, I use the organic app

And That’s It

As much as I want to be social, I also don’t want it to take over my life. The above ways are what I have found to limit that as much as possible. So, I hope this post helps some of you. And if you have some other tricks that can make it easier for me, I would love to hear about it.

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